I deeply care to serve my soul clients. In that I need to be a leader in the areas I am set to support them. Including personal power, self worth, and poise to be so magnetic to your soul clients. I witness the power of leading by example every day from my own mentor, embodiment of what she stands for and strong boundaries she holds. She inspires me to be a better leader, and version of myself.
It’s an opportunity to raise your vibration when your boundaries is being tested
Today was a hard lesson for me, when in fact it’s been a lesson I pushed aside for months now. But today, I had to speak up and stand in my own power in terms of contract boundaries. It started as an ask to suspend us working together due to money, and I agreed without hesitation. I finally asked for a meeting to discuss the terms of our contract after months had gone past our agreed suspended time frame.
You see historically I have had a problem around holding firm boundaries. My underlying fear is not being good enough. I grew up trying to please everyone, with loose boundaries, always putting myself last to fit in.
- Hoping and wishing others will like me in lieu of being completely confident in who I am
- Putting others’ needs in front of my own, so to validate my power. Or a way of gaining approval for my talent. Even as far as impressing others. Now as a biz owner, I need to work on valuing my time and intellectual properties
- Taking on others’ stuff and try to make it better for them, so they aren’t feeling bad, angry, sad, or pissed off with me. But everyone has their own stuff to work on, it’s not for me to be drawn to it. If they are pissed off, I need to let them be that.
Loose boundaries is a way of giving your power away
What is important is being aware loose boundaries eat at your personal power. They peck away at your energetic brand and your vibe in attracting your soul clients and tribe. Leading by example, and hold strong boundaries is true embodiment of your unique energetic brand, your values, your beliefs, and what you ultimately stand for. Do you agree?
I value both my own and your own personal power. If a contract has been agreed, this is a safe place for both parties, there is an exchange. I care about this exchange and honouring the work I have already done within that, I care about my energy and the space I’ve committed to holding for my clients.
Being drawn into drama or crisis, or simply someone else’s mess takes you off your game.
As my wise mentor said “…journal if you need to. Now, let it go. Don’t give it any more thoughts, and open up your energy” (~Sarah Negus, modern day shaman) to what you want to bring in.
I invite you to join me here, let go of anything that is not yours, open up your energy, comment below and lets join together…… what do you want to bring in….??