Your Uniqueness Comes from Your Femininity.
Ever since becoming a mother, my babes cracked my heart right open, becoming an emotional being once again. As I’ve grown up in a traditional Chinese household; where the man makes all the decisions in the household. Women are meant to support the men; like house chores so men can do bigger and greater things, play small so to make the men feel better about themselves. I’ve learned subconsciously that being a woman is weak, keeping their voice quiet because it’s inappropriate to speak their opinions, and literally just a background character. Subconsciously believing if you want to become someone of value, someone of greatness, then you need to be masculine. Masculine as in you just do, a do-er. And strong women are masculine and don’t cry.
Since I became a mother, I have learned my definition of a strong woman is totally wack. It screwed with me. Really hard. I started running my own business, because I believe to become my children’s role model by showing them that life is abundant and you can do whatever your heart desire. My desire was simple, to be their full time care giver. So I started my own online biz. I had gotten clients easily at the very beginning, then hit a dry spell for a very long time. I decided this is my life’s path so I kept working at myself. I worked on my mindset; self worthiness, self confidence, the importance of balance in feminine and masculine energy because I want ease and flow in my biz. I am willing to hustle, but the balance of being a present mom and wife is equally as important to me. In the end, it’s all about knowing who I am, sharing what I value and believe in, clear on where I am unique, and stand out of my own way to everything I ever wanted; don’t need to worry over money, buy nice things, travel on a whim, moreover bring my hubs home from corporate and provide life rich experiences for my boys with a lot of love.
Being feminine means to me; trusting your own intuition in biz, know your values and what’s important to you, lead with yourself being the core to everything in your life. Nurture what makes you unique, your desires in the impact you want to make, needs, wants, and freedom.